Men and Women
Maggie Gallagher makes an excellent point that many educated women keep whinning about relationships and men receive little appreciation for their contributions:
The problem is not that working wives want more help with household chores, or that all women want husbands deeply involved in family life. The problem comes when a culture of grievance (and the illusions of power it gives) replaces the cultivation of gratitude. Most especially, when appreciation, approval and affection get translated as "subservience" rather than love.
Update: Shanti asks if feminism is still relevant. Feminism as a movement, having accomplished its goals, is becoming irrelevant. It has developed a habbit of whinning and is now in the same league as Civil Rights movement in US.